AR34: Outgrowing Worry: A Journey of Growth, and Spiritual Strength

Today we speak with Marissa again, but this time it's one year later.  We explore how your spiritual gifts unfold in perfect timing—even if it doesn’t always feel that way. Sometimes the lessons we try to avoid are exactly what prepare us for the next stage of our evolution. We talk about what happens when someone changes after the lesson is complete, and why worrying about others only creates energetic interference. Instead of feeding fear, we’ll look at what it means to hold trust—especially when you’ve been tested again and again. I’ll also guide you through how to reflect on your recent past for insight, and how to recognize the quiet ways your soul is showing you that you're ready for more. 

Transcript

00;00;00;07 - 00;00;35;07
Annette Dalloo
You are getting tested over and over and over again, and there's no person being God. Anybody on the other side that's basically sitting there with a clipboard saying, you have to pass this test. That's not what this is. This is your higher self that's setting this up. This is you, your soul, your guides. You've decided to do this before you came here in order to be able to move on to a higher plane, next level, better energy, better relationship, better job, any of those things, we have to sort of prove that we are ready for it.

00;00;35;10 - 00;00;49;09
Annette Dalloo
We have to prove that we are in the right energy to consume, instantly, attract attracted.

00;00;49;11 - 00;01;13;16
Annette Dalloo
Welcome to the Akashic Recordings. My name is Annette Dalu. I'm an Akashic Conduit channel and spiritual guidance coach. What you will be hearing today is a real session with one of my clients. All the names have been changed for privacy and of course, with their permission, we are privileged to hear these beautiful stories to allow us a small glimpse into the Akashic Records.

00;01;13;16 - 00;01;36;15
Annette Dalloo
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00;01;36;18 - 00;02;02;18
Annette Dalloo
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00;02;02;18 - 00;02;22;06
Annette Dalloo
Go to that homepage, click sign up for the waitlist, send your email, phone number as well as your first and last name, and I will make sure that you get that registration email as soon as the next course is ready to launch. In addition, you will get a little discount code for early bird sign up, so if you're interested, head over there now.

00;02;22;08 - 00;02;51;03
Annette Dalloo
This week's session finds us one year later from last week session with Marissa. This session, we delve a little bit further into her spiritual path into her life purpose. We get to see the progression of where she was a year ago and where she is now. We discuss her children and the evolution of their relationship and what her role is in their lives.

00;02;51;03 - 00;03;19;20
Annette Dalloo
We do some powerful work surrounding a really tough situation she had over the last several months. In the discussion, we talk about how to have faith and trust. When we have been tested so many times. Also, is there anything worth the lower energy of worry? Is it something that we can just get rid of altogether? We also talk about the integration of each one of these sessions.

00;03;19;20 - 00;03;42;02
Annette Dalloo
Integration is very important as it pertains to your understanding and energetic embody ment of the information. And lastly, we talk about how your gifts come together over the course of time.

00;03;42;04 - 00;04;05;14
Annette Dalloo
So tell me, what are we covering today? I had gone over the last readings. We did. I mean, like, I can't believe it's. It was over a year ago. I was hoping we could go to Soul Origin today. I really listened to them. And we had talked about soul purpose in life purpose. But I don't think we got to life purpose.

00;04;05;17 - 00;04;31;17
Annette Dalloo
Okay. We did cover soul. Purpose is not. I'm pretty clear on and very connected with. Yeah. And then after I just family stuff contract. I'm curious about some soul clusters and contracts with people and friends, but okay, that's not high on the list. All right. Yeah. So I do want to check up on my sister because I know you won't remember, but we helped her crossover.

00;04;31;21 - 00;05;02;03
Annette Dalloo
Okay, I know we did talk about my brother, but I think I need to go deeper. Okay. Sounds good. Yeah. So for the sake of expediency, can you just give me a brief reminder of what your soul purpose was and what we covered there? Yeah, I'm a transitional soul. I am to assist people through the transition. And because a lot of people I tend to be in and out of their lives when they lose someone important to them or when they pass away.

00;05;02;03 - 00;05;22;29
Annette Dalloo
And it just it's a recurring thing in my life. I want to thank you. Who am I dying? Thank you so much for being here and helping us through the records today. Thank you to Archangel Metatron and Archangel Sam often for being here as well. Today we are opening up the Akashic Records. Thank you. We wanted to look at soul origin in addition to life purpose.

00;05;23;04 - 00;05;44;26
Annette Dalloo
And where is it that we need to go first? Life purpose. Okay. And then we'll tackle the soul origin shortly. The life's purpose, they're saying is, is important for you to know at this time. Okay. So do we need to look at any past lives in order to know her life purpose for this lifetime? We do not. Okay, so I'm seeing a stretch, something like.

00;05;44;26 - 00;06;13;02
Annette Dalloo
And I'm hearing the word stretch in as far as you can go. Okay. What does that mean exactly? So they're saying to me that you've learned how to do what you need to do. You've learned how to be in the space that you need to be in in order to do the work that you want to do. The biggest thing at the moment, though, is that now it's about expansion.

00;06;13;05 - 00;06;53;10
Annette Dalloo
So your life purpose has been leading up to this. Your life purpose has been about getting to the exact spot that you are now and then being able to expand out as much as possible. Now, what we mean by expand out, we mean your energy needs to be able to be almost accessible in a larger form than it has been in the past, thereby being able to help more people, thereby being able to connect to more people, to be able to help them cross over, to be able to help them in their transitions.

00;06;53;12 - 00;07;26;16
Annette Dalloo
When you've done this in the past, in other lifetimes, it has been challenging because when you have a smaller energy field, it does take a toll on the physical body. It takes a toll on your day to day life. And so what we would like to do is help you to understand why having a larger energy field is more beneficial not only for your physical body, but for your ability to do the things that you are wanting to do and needing to do in this lifetime.

00;07;26;18 - 00;07;54;06
Annette Dalloo
You have a great gift to be able to see and feel things that other people can't see and feel. And so with this ability, you can take the energy that you already have within you and expand it into a place that is helpful, that is peaceful, that is also in the space of understanding for the people that you are helping.

00;07;54;06 - 00;08;18;20
Annette Dalloo
Okay, so what they're showing me is like almost as if your energy field becomes like a bubble of peace and clarity for the people who are about to transition or who are going to cross over. Whereas just before crossing over, it might feel a little chaotic on the energy to make that transition. And then once that transition happens, it might feel a little chaotic.

00;08;18;20 - 00;08;42;13
Annette Dalloo
But because your energy is what it is, it's like you keep them in a little bubble of like peace and quiet while they're making that transition. So it's not so harsh on them. Have you ever seen The Nutcracker? Yes. Okay. Long time ago when I was a little girl. All right. So I'm not sure if you're going to know this analogy, but I know The Nutcracker very well.

00;08;42;13 - 00;09;06;28
Annette Dalloo
There was a point in the ballet where they have this woman in a giant, giant skirt, and all these little acrobats start coming out of the skirt. And so she was like, holding them in the safety of her skirt, if you will. Yeah. And so, like, that's kind of the, the analogy they're giving me is that like, you're holding the people in the safety of your energy while they're making the transition.

00;09;06;28 - 00;09;31;21
Annette Dalloo
And it helps just ease that transition for them. In general, your life purpose is one of those purposes that is directly tied to your sole purpose. You have been working on this for so many lifetimes that this is sort of a fine tuning, if you will, and it is also a launching to of this energy. So is there anything else to her life purpose that we need to know?

00;09;31;21 - 00;09;53;13
Annette Dalloo
Yes. That isn't the only life purpose she has for this lifetime. There is sort of a secondary or, if you will, a another half version of this life purpose. Okay, so the expansion and the completion of the refinement were two of the life purposes she had. And she is in the process of fulfilling the expansion aspect of it.

00;09;53;15 - 00;10;19;29
Annette Dalloo
The other side quest, if you will, of this life purpose has to do with her children. She has specifically incarnated with her children and her children have specifically chosen her because of the types of souls that they are. They are almost apprentices with you. They both have similar soul signatures as you, and they both have similar soul purposes.

00;10;19;29 - 00;10;39;29
Annette Dalloo
And to you, not exactly the same, but similar. And so they both are learning from you in the way that you are doing the things that you are doing energetically. There's not a whole lot you need to do for that particular life purpose, because you're just essentially leading by example. Yeah. Have your kids started coming into any of their gifts?

00;10;39;29 - 00;11;14;08
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Definitely not. We've just been reunited, like in the first our first reading, they were estranged from me with their father, and it was explained to me that they chose us and that at this point, they are learning what they need to from him. What? They came to my role as mother. It has an even started and that makes a ton of sense from the perspective of yeah, if this is what your purpose is with them, then they were not even ready to even receive that yet.

00;11;14;09 - 00;11;34;29
Annette Dalloo
Right? Exactly. It's going to be something that will unfold as things move forward. Yeah, well, my daughter's living with me now, so. And my son and I have like a very good relationship. We see each other a lot weekly and stuff like that. And he's really come around in the last year as we started talking again. Oh that's incredible.

00;11;34;29 - 00;12;02;03
Annette Dalloo
I'm so happy to hear that. Yeah. It's it's amazing. Thank you. Do you have any questions about the sort of soul expansion they were talking about? Yeah. I mean it kind of making sense because in the past two years I'm now a Reiki level two. I am a breathwork facilitator. I am I started breathwork coaching and I'm educating and not like all those modalities.

00;12;02;03 - 00;12;26;22
Annette Dalloo
And somatic movement as well. So it's like the death doula thing. It was very heavy in me and I was like, that's what I have to do and stuff. But it's kind of taken aback because the right thing hasn't presented itself to me yet. So I was wondering, is there any traumas that I brought from past lives into this one that's holding me back or stopping me from the full potential type thing?

00;12;26;22 - 00;12;47;13
Annette Dalloo
You know what I'm saying? I do know what you're saying. You did tell me as well that I do have there's shamanistic qualities or mediumship in there somewhere. And yeah, it's one of those things. It's like I'm eager for it, but it hasn't happened. But I've also been sidetracked. There was a lot going on last year and all my practices just fell to the side, which is I'll just coming back.

00;12;47;17 - 00;13;09;02
Annette Dalloo
I'm going to Peru in two weeks to start my plant medicine journey that's been calling to me since 2015. And yeah, so like that when you said you're right where you're supposed to be and this, that and it's all like, I had an astrological reading last week and that's all like everything's resonating and it's like blowing my mind.

00;13;09;04 - 00;13;45;10
Annette Dalloo
Amazing. To clarify the expansion, to also clarify what you're experiencing right now as well as where you need to go with this. I'm not seeing any blockages that are preventing you from moving forward, okay? It's just a matter of like everything kind of falling into place. So the expansion of your energy needs to happen first before you start doing the death doula type of work, but also I'm seeing some multicolored facets to what you're going to be doing.

00;13;45;11 - 00;14;14;06
Annette Dalloo
Okay. So in other words, I don't think you're just going to be doing the transition work with people. I feel like you're going to be doing other work as well, and that's going to be necessary to balance it out in terms of the like you said, the heaviness in that sort of thing, right? Once you have expanded your energy to a place that it needs to be, then what's going to happen is that you're going to start feeling guided to do certain things, like, I'm not seeing.

00;14;14;06 - 00;14;35;29
Annette Dalloo
That's going to be something that you'll do full time, like the helping with the transitions. And then the other period of time will be doing some of the shaman work, maybe some of the breath works, maybe some of the Reiki, you know what I mean? So you're going to kind of like pull that all together and it's going to create something that you can do that will be more multifaceted.

00;14;35;29 - 00;15;01;26
Annette Dalloo
Okay. Yeah. You did share that with me. I believe back, I think it was the first one because I'm a photographer for a long time and you're like, yeah, there's a whole thing you're going to be doing. That's like a type of portraiture work that hasn't been done before, where it's about you're going to be with the with people or with couples, and you'll be asking them questions that will come to you from source documenting their interaction around the questions and stuff like that.

00;15;01;26 - 00;15;29;10
Annette Dalloo
Because the photography, like you pointed out, the photography and I've been documenting transitions like that's what I do because it's like first communions, confirmations, bar mitzvahs, weddings and stuff like that. And you're like, that's all transitional memoir that's been building up and but yeah, so and you had said you're going to be doing stuff and it's all going to be different areas, and it's all going to come together.

00;15;29;13 - 00;16;03;12
Annette Dalloo
And yeah, I'm just trying to figure out how it's all going to come together, but I need to stop trying to figure it out because it will come. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's unfortunately the thing that we do as humans, which is we want to know how things are going to come together and we just don't exactly. And I often say this, that with the amount of predictions that I have made in my life, which I have made quite a few, not only for people but for myself, and the predictions almost always come true.

00;16;03;13 - 00;16;23;02
Annette Dalloo
But most of the time it's never in the way that you think it's going to. It's always in a totally different way. Then you're like, oh, okay, cool. So my guides tell me to do this, and I did it. And then all of these other things unfolded, and it totally turned out differently than what I thought it was going to write.

00;16;23;05 - 00;16;54;10
Annette Dalloo
So it doesn't often end in a way that is unpleasant. You know, it ends up being something either that you needed or that is better than what you wanted to begin with. So that's why we're not really meant to know. Because how do you really describe that, even because, like, I had the same thing going on when I was looking for that thing that I was going to be doing, I wasn't even in a place of saying like, yeah, I want to be a spiritual healer or a teacher or something, you know, like, I wasn't in that space at all.

00;16;54;13 - 00;17;08;16
Annette Dalloo
And my guides are like, yep, this is what you're going to be. And I'm like, yeah, okay, cool. So I don't know what that's going to look like. They're like, you don't have to know what that's going to look like. And I'm like, but I kind of do because how am I going to do it if I don't know what that looks like?

00;17;08;16 - 00;17;31;14
Annette Dalloo
And they've shown me time and time again, you really don't, right? You really don't. You're going to be guided to the right modalities. You're going to be guided to the right things. And you already have been. So then what happens after that is you start to do the practice, and once you start doing it, things will start to just fall into place as they need to.

00;17;31;20 - 00;17;50;29
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Okay. So let's take a look at Soul Origin please. Do we need to look at any past life for soul origin. We do this one. We don't want to show you that life just yet. So we're going to show you something else first. Okay? I don't know what that means. Can you elaborate on that, please? Okay.

00;17;50;29 - 00;18;33;25
Annette Dalloo
So are you saying to me that her soul has always existed in this way? Her soul has always existed in this particular form. In other words, she has not gone through the typical soul origin where you individualize from divine source energy. Her particular soul signature has always been sort of on its own in a way, and it has not necessarily been disconnected from divine source energy, but it has always been at a transition point from one dimension to the next, from one galaxy to the next, from one energy to the next.

00;18;33;27 - 00;18;57;03
Annette Dalloo
She always been part of the whole and still continues to be okay. So she did not break off from Divine Source energy, correct? And she still isn't correct. Okay, so a lot of times we look at soul origins and I see them as like little pods or like little circles of energy that kind of break off from divine source energy and individual.

00;18;57;06 - 00;19;23;01
Annette Dalloo
And what they're saying to me is that you did not do this. You're actually still quite connected to the divine entirely. And so because you are a gateway, you help with those transitions. That is actually just the nature of who you are as an energy, as a soul. And you have been doing this forever for the entire existence of you and your soul.

00;19;23;04 - 00;19;48;21
Annette Dalloo
You have been a transition gateway. You have been a portal that moves energies between galaxies, between dimensions. It's like the junction piece of any mechanism that allows you to go from one place to the next and change direction. That's what your energy has been and always has been. All right, so how does an energy like that end up being able to incarnate in a body?

00;19;48;24 - 00;20;13;29
Annette Dalloo
It is no different than any other soul incarnating in a body. It just means that she is still 100% connected to divine source energy, as opposed to other people who are individualized from divine Source energy. And we don't like using the word separation because it isn't a separation, it is just an individualization. It is a piece of a soul that is existing within.

00;20;13;29 - 00;20;42;05
Annette Dalloo
It is existing within divine source energy, as opposed to being exactly part of Divine Source energy. It's the best way that we can describe it to you. It is not exactly that, but in your human language it is the best way that we can describe it. Okay. Oh, this is why you're able to expand your energy to be as big as you want it to be, because you have these abilities to expand into, quite literally, your divinity.

00;20;42;08 - 00;21;08;00
Annette Dalloo
Oh, interesting. Okay. So they're showing it to me like this. If you imagine a balloon and you have another balloon inside of that balloon, that's how regular everyday souls are. So it's like you can blow up that little balloon in the inside of that other bigger balloon. You can blow that up, but it can only get blown up as big as the outside balloon is, right?

00;21;08;00 - 00;21;34;16
Annette Dalloo
It can't get any bigger, right? That's kind of what every day average souls are. You know, they're existing within divine source energy, and we can only expand as far as our container allows us to expand. Whereas you, because you're not inside the balloon, you're outside the balloon. You are the outside balloon. Okay? So you're part of the outside balloon.

00;21;34;16 - 00;22;00;23
Annette Dalloo
And so the outside balloon can get as big as it wants to, right? That's the best way that I can really describe it. Makes sense. That's a lot. It is, it is. Why is it that certain? Like I said, the majority of the souls that I've connected to, at the very least during these sessions, why is it that they are limited by that container, if you will, whereas other souls like, like hers could be expanded maybe infinitum?

00;22;00;23 - 00;22;31;04
Annette Dalloo
You think about it from a human perspective as a limitation, and it's not. It's not a limitation. It just simply is how the energies exist. Could somebody who has a soul that is contained within the divine source energy, have a more potent energy that is really beautiful and crystalline in nature, and be just as powerful as, let's say, her energy can become in its expansion?

00;22;31;04 - 00;23;09;13
Annette Dalloo
So the answer is yes. We are not limited by time and space on the other side, we are not limited by anything in that respect. So something as small as the head of a pin could be just as powerful as an entire planet. It just depends on the energy of the soul and what they're here to do. And if it serves the soul to be able to expand their energy as big as they can, then they will be allowed to do so by their own intention to do whatever job that they are here to do.

00;23;09;20 - 00;23;38;12
Annette Dalloo
When they decide to expand their energy, it is in line with what their purpose is. So another soul that let's say, is within the container of Divine Source energy. It is very unlikely that that soul would have a purpose such as yours, because they do not need to make their energy fields as big as do so. It is not a hierarchy of any sort, it is just simply where things lie.

00;23;38;13 - 00;24;04;22
Annette Dalloo
It is the sole purpose of each individual soul and how they operate. It is about what your innate talents are as a soul, if you will. We will use that phrasing to give you an understanding of each soul's unique signature and what they are meant to accomplish, or what they are here to do. Now, understanding that on the other side, each soul or energy doesn't really have to do anything.

00;24;04;24 - 00;24;35;10
Annette Dalloo
It is a choice, if you will. It is a going with the flow of how the universe is orchestrated, that you start moving into pieces and parts and energies to create something, to transmute something, to transition something. It all works very harmoniously and quite seamlessly. It is just when you are on this planet. Or this also does happen on other planets as well, where you have limitations that prevent the flow of this energy freely.

00;24;35;10 - 00;24;57;08
Annette Dalloo
But then you also have benefits to being on this planet and being incarnated. You can do things here that you can't do on the other side. It is a trade off. So from the perspective of your soul, you have been and always will be, and there is nothing further that you need to understand about that, other than you are already on your path and you're doing exactly what you are meant to do.

00;24;57;08 - 00;25;14;07
Annette Dalloo
Because with the soul that you have, you have no choice but to do so. And they're showing me a little image of you, like you being pushed by the universe, almost like. And they're saying to me that this is kind of how you felt your whole life. We're like, you just feel pushed into particular things, and it's not a bad thing.

00;25;14;07 - 00;25;37;17
Annette Dalloo
It's just like you're just like, oh, hey, I'm getting pushed into this now. Okay, I guess I'm here. Yeah. You know, it's like, you know, it's like moving with that flow of the river. You know, you're just like, okay, I guess I'm doing this now for. All right. Yeah. It's very important for you to know, because it's not typical for people to feel that way, to feel like they're just kind of being dropped off in various different places.

00;25;37;17 - 00;25;54;08
Annette Dalloo
And you're like, okay, cool. I guess this is what I'm doing now. And then you get dropped off another place and you're like, okay, I guess this is what I'm doing now, you know? Yeah, it's not typical and it is a part of what you are here to experience. So interesting. So that was a whole lot. Does anything not make sense?

00;25;54;11 - 00;26;16;20
Annette Dalloo
It doesn't, it doesn't, you know. Yeah it's a lot. I feel it. You know what I mean. Like I know in past ones I would say something in your life but you knew that it's like and I did. Yeah. Take the time you need to go into that and it'll start to unfold for you now that you have the information.

00;26;16;22 - 00;26;36;13
Annette Dalloo
What's interesting about this too though is that you will be able to connect to a little bit of this when you are on your journey in Peru. There will be elements of this that you will connect to. And now that you know this information, it might help you to make sense of what you are going to see.

00;26;36;13 - 00;27;04;12
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Because I also that just brought something else up. I did a journey in July with one of my friends and coaches, and it was psilocybin MDMA. But I, I did a small amount of DMT. I was nervous about it because of what I had heard, but felt very safe with her. I remember when I like so when I was in it, the only way I could describe it was that I was no longer here.

00;27;04;14 - 00;27;25;26
Annette Dalloo
I was one with the universe, but there really wasn't any. It's not like I was receiving anything or I saw anything. But when I came back because I was in a slump, she just she said, like because I had sat up because I thought I was going to be set. And when I surrendered, because that's the hardest thing for me is letting go, and surrendering.

00;27;25;26 - 00;27;52;20
Annette Dalloo
And when I surrendered, it just poof I was gone. And then as I came back, there was like dragon imagery and stuff like that. Something came over my body and it just unroll. And the next thing I knew, I was sitting upright with my arms outstretched, like to the sky. And I turned and looked at her and she was like, oh my God, that was the most beautiful thing I've ever like it.

00;27;52;20 - 00;28;16;18
Annette Dalloo
Just like it's so hard to explain. But that it's almost like the expansion that that's what I'm connecting to. What you just do, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. And I think that's because I couldn't break it down. But. And I couldn't explain it, and I still kind of can't, but. Yeah. And she was like, you just.

00;28;16;18 - 00;29;04;18
Annette Dalloo
And I said that was my soul reentering my body. That's what I felt. It just crept in and my spine and curled, and I was sitting upright, and then my arms just went up and I didn't do that. It just happened. So. Yeah. Yeah. See that now it's making more sense. One of the things that is interesting about knowing these types of information pieces about ourselves is that oftentimes you can't quite put it into words, you just know that it is what it is and that you feel or hear or see the resonance of it, but sometimes you can't actually put it into words.

00;29;04;18 - 00;29;25;07
Annette Dalloo
And that's why they say often when I'm doing this work that we're putting in, in terms that are accessible for you, because otherwise you wouldn't be able to understand it. Right? Right. Then there's when I was in my Reiki training and stuff like that, because I haven't really been able to use it, but apparently I vibrate. Oh yeah.

00;29;25;11 - 00;29;49;03
Annette Dalloo
And there's been times I'm doing something and I'm like, oh, my Reiki just activated. I can feel it in my hands and my feet like an I didn't even call it in. But since I've been attuned, I'm very aware of the energy. And apparently when I put my hands on her, she was like, yeah, you're vibrating. And the master who did the attunement, she was like, oh yeah, I totally forgot to tell you about that.

00;29;49;09 - 00;30;09;01
Annette Dalloo
She said, when I went to do your attunement, she said, did you notice that I put my hand? You're my hands on your shoulders. And I lifted one off and then put it back. She said, I touched you, and your whole body was vibrating and it kind of took me aback. And she said, when I opened your hands to do the attunement, your hands were on fire.

00;30;09;04 - 00;30;38;07
Annette Dalloo
And I'm like, wow, you're like, is it? It's like I felt the calling to come do this, but I had no. Yeah, yeah. Like, wow. So yeah, that's it's all energy. Yeah, absolutely. That's my expansion. I guess. Yeah. Wow. It is. That's the part about you expanding that is not needing to try to expand because you don't have to try.

00;30;38;08 - 00;31;05;04
Annette Dalloo
You just are expansion. But it is about stepping into that because like I said, are physical bodies have a tendency to make things very small when you're able to fully let go and embrace that expansion, they're saying, you're gonna have to get ready for some physical changes. Okay, that might look like a bunch of different things. It could look like drinking certain water.

00;31;05;10 - 00;31;29;25
Annette Dalloo
It could mean not eating certain foods. It could mean a whole bunch of different things. As far as as it pertains to your the support of your physical body, needing to take certain supplements or certain vitamins or certain things to support your body further, but you'll be told or guided in that way as things progress and you'll know you'll feel it in your body, you'll know what your body needs.

00;31;29;27 - 00;31;51;06
Annette Dalloo
Okay, that makes sense to. I'm in doctor right now. So just in the last ten days I cut out tobacco. We like all the things that I had been wanting to cut out for a long time, but was kind of sadly relying on work cleansing at this point. Well, you know, we rely on those things until we don't need them anymore.

00;31;51;07 - 00;32;12;07
Annette Dalloo
Exactly. And so I always tell people, don't beat yourself up for not giving up the things that, let's say you want to give up or you feel like you should, you'll move through them when you're ready to move through them. Yeah, yeah. Alcohol was 11 years ago. And there's been big blocks of time where I didn't use anything and was fine.

00;32;12;12 - 00;32;39;23
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Yeah life got tough last year. Understandable. Yeah. And I mean we do the things that we need to do to cope and whatever tools we have at the moment, that's what we use. A lot of that could start to dissipate as your energy expands, because you will start to create more tools for yourself, and you will start to know how to move through difficult energies by the work that you're doing.

00;32;39;27 - 00;33;01;07
Annette Dalloo
And I'm just seeing that some of the sort of physical tools that you use will start to fall away. They're saying that's enough information for now. That was a lie. Seems good. Just let that sink in for a little while. Yeah. We're going to go back to your kids. They're ready now. Okay. They're ready to receive, whereas they weren't before.

00;33;01;07 - 00;33;35;29
Annette Dalloo
And now they're ready to receive the wisdom that you have to impart upon them. And this wisdom doesn't have to do with necessarily physical 3D things or even verbal things. It has to do with your energy and your soul. That's why they ran away, so to speak, in addition to needing to have that experience. But it's like they couldn't be in your soul and feel good, because when people are in lower energies, they look at people with a higher frequency and it makes them feel bad about themselves.

00;33;35;29 - 00;34;14;20
Annette Dalloo
That's the best way that it can be described. But that is essentially what is happening, and they know that it's going to show them their shadow. They know it's going to show them the places where they need to do the work, and they're not ready to do it yet. What happens when they repel from the energy that they're meant to go into is that you end up receiving the energy that you absolutely do not want, so then you come back to the energy that you know that you need, and that pretty much goes for everybody in every situation, almost, where there are times in order to learn lessons, we have to go and put ourselves

00;34;14;20 - 00;34;29;09
Annette Dalloo
in the most extreme of situations in order to say, oh, yeah, I really don't want that situation. That's really awful. I don't want that anymore. So I'm going to go in, go towards what I want. Well, in order to go towards what I want, I have to go through a whole lot of work and I don't want to do that.

00;34;29;14 - 00;34;48;11
Annette Dalloo
That sounds really hard, but you've already seen the alternative, which is something that is more difficult. So you move forward in the energy that is aligned for you, and that is what your kids have been going through, and that is what they have come to realize is that doing the work and moving forward is the only way through.

00;34;48;12 - 00;35;05;08
Annette Dalloo
Now, they may not cognitively realize this, but this is what they are doing, and this is how they've come to be where they are now. And there's nothing you need to do right now. Things will evolve the way that they're meant to evolve for them and for you and your relationship with them and how you're supposed to help them.

00;35;05;08 - 00;35;25;00
Annette Dalloo
Just continue on the path. Do you have any other specific questions about them? I worry about her. Okay. He was wearing off, and there was, you know, he was going to go into this career. He's turning 20 next month, and he was going to school for this, and he was going to do that. It just was.

00;35;25;00 - 00;35;53;00
Annette Dalloo
So his father's influence. But now he's in the year and a half that we've been reconnected. He wants to be a teacher and he's going to go to school for longer. And all this. And it's like, yeah, I see how I've affected him like that. I see. But he was always the peacekeeper. She's a different she is into the crystals and she's into the same things I am and that I was when I was younger.

00;35;53;03 - 00;36;18;01
Annette Dalloo
I mean, she did kind of laugh at me because I was chanting this morning. She called me crazy. But whatever. I worry about her. She. I don't know what what it is that I'm looking for. There's like the possibility the ADHD and there's this and there's not. And it's like I keep I try to to help her get the help that she needs.

00;36;18;04 - 00;36;45;03
Annette Dalloo
But she is just it's just hard right. I'm guessing that's just her path like I don't know. I just did a session with a client and actually this is something that has been ongoing for quite some time where my guides have been really guiding me to work with people with ADHD. And help them understand why that is their path.

00;36;45;06 - 00;37;15;19
Annette Dalloo
And the channel that I did talked about ADHD and autism, both are no more than us going from one energy to the next. As we're ascending. Okay, everybody goes through it at some point. Right. And whether they've gone through it in a previous lifetime or this lifetime or whatever it is, this is something that is happening much more frequently now because more people are ascending.

00;37;15;23 - 00;37;45;10
Annette Dalloo
All right. And so what happens is you have, let's say, more energy on the other side going through this transition of, let's say, from one ascension energy to the next. And if you have part of your energy on the other side helping you with this transition, and then part of your energy is incarnated in your body, basically part of your energy is spending so much time on the other side that it's it makes it very difficult to live a 3D life.

00;37;45;14 - 00;38;10;09
Annette Dalloo
So you're getting used to those higher energies. You're getting used to those those bigger energies. And I often use the analogy, I don't know if this happens to you, but it happens to me often where if I am like in a shopping mall or like at a marshalls or something like that, after about an hour or two, I'll start feeling super spacey and super ungrounded.

00;38;10;11 - 00;38;37;18
Annette Dalloo
That makes sense. And that's the feeling that I sort of equate with that type of energy, which is I'm ungrounded. I feel like I'm floating. I feel like I'm not actually here, like I feel like I'm, you know, somewhere else. And part of that has to do with the fact that if you're in a public place, like a mall or a store, there's so many energies there that your soul is kind of like, nope, you don't want to deal with all of that.

00;38;37;21 - 00;38;53;28
Annette Dalloo
You oh, I'm just going to 100%. I'm going to hang out here. I love live music and going to concerts and stuff, but I always and when I was younger, it would be like I'd get halfway through the show, could be my favorite band and I'm just like, I got to get out of here. When is it going to end?

00;38;54;04 - 00;39;19;21
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, you know what I mean? Like, yeah. And I never understood why. Yeah. And now I understand why. It was just. It's just the energy's too much of that other people's energies. Exactly. If I could just, just be there with the band. Yeah. And not 50,000 other people. Awesome. That would be amazing. Yeah, exactly. You know, but, yeah, she actually crying babies.

00;39;19;21 - 00;39;42;05
Annette Dalloo
Sets her, she can't be in crowds with the headphones all the time and is always putting them on and going. Part of me doesn't believe that it's a neurodivergent see with her because something that, you know, she's seen in other people, so she's picked it up. But that's not really for me to say, as she's always been like since birth, a lot.

00;39;42;07 - 00;40;00;08
Annette Dalloo
You know what I mean? All right, so let's take a look at some of the worries that you have regarding her so we can see if there's anything that is truly worth the lower energy of worry was for me. Right? Yeah. Okay. No. Yeah. You don't have anything to worry about. How old is she? Right now?

00;40;00;10 - 00;40;06;28
Annette Dalloo
18. Okay. I see like a ball of chaos. Yeah. And.

00;40;07;00 - 00;40;31;14
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. And I know that's about right. If this ball of chaos is temporary, and then all I see is from after the ball of chaos, like they're either showing it to me like a, like a ball of yarn, almost. And then there's just a single string trailing off from the ball of chaos. And then she's just very peaceful walking her path.

00;40;31;20 - 00;40;53;15
Annette Dalloo
So yeah, the ball of chaos. It's not going to be a long term situation. Can we know exactly or roughly how long that's going to be? No, because it is going to be entirely up to her and the the work that she does. Here's the thing is that don't be worried about her taking on other things from other people because she's trying things on.

00;40;53;15 - 00;41;19;09
Annette Dalloo
She's trying things on to see what works for her, and she'll eventually let go of the things that don't work for her. She doesn't know how to create her own things, so she's just trying other people's things on. Right. Exactly. Oh nailed it. Yeah. And it is starting. It's coming. Yeah. It's starting I see it. Yeah, yeah. She's in a gap year and we're having a hard time okay.

00;41;19;11 - 00;41;42;18
Annette Dalloo
So yeah she'll figure it out eventually. It's just partly the age as well. We're experimenting. We're trying to figure out who we are. We're trying to figure out what works for us and what doesn't. And so she's in that sort of exploratory phase right now. And it's necessary for her to see and feel what's really hers. Yeah. So yeah, you just need to let her go through that okay.

00;41;42;20 - 00;42;07;24
Annette Dalloo
Okay. So let's see where we need to go next. They want to talk about your tough year being last year. Yeah okay. They don't necessarily need me to know details. Right. They want to do a little check in with you okay. To see where your energy is as it pertains to everything that happens. Yeah. It's like I feel that like you just sort of release.

00;42;07;25 - 00;42;35;17
Annette Dalloo
What I would like you to do is I would like you to just close your eyes for the moment. Should I have feet on the ground? Yes, please. And I would like you to speak to the version of you sometime in that year. So whether it's like in smack dab in the middle of everything that happened or whether it's towards the end, whatever feels right for you, that version of you, whoever that is, just imagine that she is standing in front of you, and I want you to ask her how she's feeling.

00;42;35;19 - 00;43;12;23
Annette Dalloo
Relieved. Is there anything that she would like to say to you right now was that you did what you had to do, and you made it through? Actually is you're a champion. That's awesome. I love that, you know, champion through that. Yeah. So is there any residual anything that you both need to address talk about? I think it's me wanting to tell her that she didn't have to let it get to her so much that everything would have been fine anyway.

00;43;12;23 - 00;43;57;05
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, it would have been okay. You did what you had to do. And you championed through it but took on unnecessary stress and unnecessary fears, fears and worries. You imagine that all of that extraneous energy, all of the unnecessary worries and fears are just clearing from both your body and her body. Imagine a beautiful bright light coming from the tops of your heads, almost like a giant rectangular plane, as it's going to be like sort of scanning your whole energy field starting from the top of your head, going all the way down, burning off any psychic debris, any energy that does not belong any further, and allow that plane of light to go throughout

00;43;57;05 - 00;44;23;21
Annette Dalloo
both of your bodies, diversion from whatever this was. So, you know, let's say it's six months ago or eight months ago or a year ago and allow all of that energy to dissipate and transmute. And I just keep on hearing faith and trust. Faith and trust is what was needed at the time. And I'm hearing that you were clinging very tightly, and if you were to let go of your grip, then some of that fear would have dissipated.

00;44;23;21 - 00;44;46;13
Annette Dalloo
So for the next time any sort of challenge comes up, remember this period of time and understand that you can have faith and trust. You can understand that things unfold the way that they do, based on what our trajectory is and what we need to move through in order to get to where we want to be. I do feel like your sister wants to say something, okay?

00;44;46;20 - 00;45;15;17
Annette Dalloo
She wants me to tell you that she's okay. Better than okay. She's in awe of you. Yeah. The amount that you have gone through and the amount that you have done. And to be where you are now. She is just in awe. She wishes she could, like, bottle you up and give you to other people like she always did, because of the way that you handle certain things and the way that you move through these energy shoots.

00;45;15;17 - 00;45;33;09
Annette Dalloo
It's like, can I just bottle up your energy and like, give it to everybody else? Because so many people need that energy, right? She's basically saying, like, you don't even need me. Like I'm I'm just hanging out here doing nothing. It's like you're doing it all yourself and you're doing a fantastic job. She is she's saying this in jest.

00;45;33;09 - 00;45;48;27
Annette Dalloo
She is. She's definitely helping you when she can, but she's saying, you really don't need a whole lot of help, like you are doing most of the things on your own and you're doing it well. She's just waiting for my mom.

00;45;49;00 - 00;46;10;01
Annette Dalloo
I don't know why she just drew, like, this purple sparkly line. It's like purple. Almost like somebody were to draw, like crayon, like drawing, like purple crayon. And then it's got, like, these little gold flecks in it. Why are you showing that to me? What is that all about? Oh, it's your creation of abundance. And she's helping you with that as well.

00;46;10;04 - 00;46;36;05
Annette Dalloo
And she's putting her finger on her nose like, yep, that's it. Yeah. The nose knows. That was last year was we were in kind of legal battle to get the funds from her passing. That was residual from my father's passing 35 years ago. Right. It all kind of intertwined and oh we didn't get it till seven months later.

00;46;36;05 - 00;46;58;24
Annette Dalloo
And okay where is in this. Not and it was a lot. And we went into a bit of a financial place. My mom and my daughter and I were all living together and it was bad. I was carrying everybody and it was a lot. So, so yeah that makes sense then. This is why she said that this is what she was helping you with.

00;46;58;24 - 00;47;16;10
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Yeah. Just like I'm just thinking about it all how it. Yeah I was like one day I was like I need to get a job like tomorrow because I was in school and literally opened up my email, called a friend, and had a job the next day. You know what I mean? It was like everything just fell into place, like it had to.

00;47;16;11 - 00;47;34;22
Annette Dalloo
And even though things were tight and it was tough, I made it work. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I made it work. And that was part of the issue. Was that like, it was me and my brother and. And he just was dealing with it a whole nother way. And because he didn't need the money and yeah, it was a lot.

00;47;34;24 - 00;48;01;24
Annette Dalloo
It's done now and it was like it all came together. Taurus full moon, beautiful. And for like a week I was like gloating. Wow. Oh that's incredible. Need to ground. Need to ground. Yeah. Wonderful. All right, so I am going to close the records. Thank you. To a call. Oh, my God, I thank you for Angel, Metatron and archangels and our fans help in this session.

00;48;01;24 - 00;48;22;12
Annette Dalloo
And helping us see and feel and hear all the things that we needed to hear today. The markets are closed, the records are closed. The records are closed. Thank you. Okay. How do you feel? I feel great, I feel very light and fluffy. Yay and ready to take on this journey. All right, talk to you then. Okay. Have a great weekend.

00;48;22;16 - 00;48;35;28
Annette Dalloo
I will you too. Okay, thanks. Bye bye.

00;48;36;00 - 00;49;00;18
Annette Dalloo
Once again, I would like to thank Marissa for taking the time in doing this work and allowing me to record it for the podcast. Okay, so we've got a lot to cover from this session. I'm going to dive right into what I would call spiritual growth trauma. And I'm just kind of making that up right now because I don't know what else to call it.

00;49;00;18 - 00;49;33;11
Annette Dalloo
It is something that I've gone through many, many times and it is important to address when we're on this journey, we get tested by our higher self, by the universe to see if we have integrated the lessons fully. We will get triggers again and again. You have also heard me talk about healing as being almost a funnel, where when you start at the top, you go around in that circle at the top, and then you come back to that same lesson again.

00;49;33;11 - 00;50;00;08
Annette Dalloo
But as you go further down the funnel, the amount of time it takes to get back to that lesson again is shorter and shorter, and the intensity of that lesson is less and less. So during that process, you are getting tested over and over and over again, and there's no person being God. Anybody on the other side that's basically sitting there with a clipboard saying, you have to pass this test.

00;50;00;08 - 00;50;22;18
Annette Dalloo
That's not what this is. This is your higher self that's setting this up. This is you, your soul, your guides. You've decided to do this before you came here in order to be able to move on to a higher plane. Next level, better energy, better relationship, better job, any of those things, we have to sort of prove that we are ready for it.

00;50;22;18 - 00;50;44;17
Annette Dalloo
We have to prove that we are in the right energy to consistently attract it. I've used this analogy before where you've seen people where they win the lottery and then very quickly lose all the money, and it is because they are not an energetic match to the money. And it's the same with everything else you can get. The wonderful significant other.

00;50;44;17 - 00;51;18;11
Annette Dalloo
But if you are not an energetic match to that person, it's not going to last. So the test comes in where you start to see how your energy is reacting to this particular thing that you want to the situation, person, environment, whatever it happens to be. The challenge that I come across, and I'm actually dealing with it right now, in fact, is when you've been tested so many times, how do you know when this is the last time you're going to be tested?

00;51;18;11 - 00;51;33;25
Annette Dalloo
There have been so many times when I've thought that, okay, this lesson is done all right. I'm no longer going to see this ever again. And then it comes back around again, and then I'm like, okay, no, this is the this is the last time I know this is the last time. I'm totally good. I've worked through this is everything's fine.

00;51;33;25 - 00;51;53;22
Annette Dalloo
And then it comes back around again and I'm like, why? Why is this coming back around again? Because I feel like I've worked through all of that energy. But then you look back and you realize that there was still a lot more to work through. When I think about all the times, even just, you know, three years ago, two years ago that I said, yep.

00;51;53;23 - 00;52;18;10
Annette Dalloo
Okay, cool. Yeah, I'm ready for my divine romantic connection. I'm ready for it. I'm good. And it just wasn't the case. Now that I look back on it, I wasn't in the energy that I wanted to be in. And it's not to say that I couldn't have a beautiful, romantic connection at that time. It just means that with the type of connection that I want, that's what I wasn't energetically aligned with.

00;52;18;11 - 00;52;45;19
Annette Dalloo
How do you know that you're done with the lessons? I have asked my guides this a few times, and typically the answer is they will let you know. I have been getting many, many signs recently that say your lessons are done in regards to this particular situation, meaning that the hard times are over. This tough situation that you keep on seeing over and over again is not coming back again.

00;52;45;21 - 00;53;13;08
Annette Dalloo
You've transmuted all the energy. You've gotten it out of your energy field, you've done all the somatic work, you've done the energetic work you've done, the internal work, you've done the reprograming like all of the things and all of the tools that we use to be able to move through some of these challenging times. I've done all of those things multiple, multiple times, and I'm being assured that, yes, this particular habit or this particular pattern is now done.

00;53;13;14 - 00;53;36;21
Annette Dalloo
What happens if the pattern isn't done? So what happens if you're still in it? How to have faith and trust that it's going to end at some point? I don't have all the answers on that because it really just depends on the person. So you might be working on something over the course of lifetimes, so maybe that lesson will follow you into the next lifetime.

00;53;36;22 - 00;54;08;29
Annette Dalloo
Maybe that lesson has followed you for several lifetimes. It just is really contingent upon what it is you're working on, how deeply ingrained that energy is in your energy field, and how much you've decided to work on it in this lifetime, when you have been sort of burned over and over again by the dark nights of the soul, by thinking that you were done with your work, and then it came back again, I have empathy for you.

00;54;09;02 - 00;54;33;08
Annette Dalloo
I have compassion for you because I know what it's like. I know what it's like to not necessarily trust and to maybe be looking at every situation with a little bit of trepidation going, oh God, is this going to be another lesson they're telling me right now to help you understand that you can let go. You don't have to sit there and cringe almost to almost expect another lesson.

00;54;33;11 - 00;54;58;16
Annette Dalloo
The place that you want to be in is a place of strength, because there's always going to be another lesson, whether it's in the same subject matter or not. So can you stand in your strength knowing that you have the tools that you need to get through any challenge to get through any test, if you will? Are you able to do that knowing that you can come out the other side in your complete balance?

00;54;58;24 - 00;55;21;15
Annette Dalloo
That is the question. It's not whether or not you're done with that particular lesson or not. It's not whether or not this lesson will come back around again. It is about, can you stand in your strength with everything that you learned and move through this with grace and all the ability that you have? That's how you know that you have leveled up.

00;55;21;15 - 00;55;55;18
Annette Dalloo
That's how you know that you have evolved, is because that fear of having those things come back again, dissipate. That faith and trust is almost redirected towards yourself. You're not putting faith and trust in the universe necessarily, although that is preferable to have faith and trust in the universe in the way that it works as well as yourself, because you are the universe, but it is about your ability to trust in yourself, to know that you have the capability to do whatever it is that you need to do in any given situation.

00;55;55;26 - 00;56;26;21
Annette Dalloo
Now, this doesn't mean that it won't get messy at times it does. But knowing that it's not going to completely make you crumble and fall entirely, that you have leveled up to a place of a solid foundation that is built on something super strong that you can handle what is coming your way. So if you're in a place of trepidation, not trusting, a little scared that maybe there are more lessons to come, understand that beyond these lessons is great expansion.

00;56;26;21 - 00;56;57;25
Annette Dalloo
Beyond the fears, beyond the dark nights of the soul, beyond all of that is great expansion. So although we don't necessarily like to have those moments of challenge or moments of contrast, they are necessary for our growth. And one of the ways that you can acknowledge that growth is doing similar to what we did with Marissa in the session, which is speak to the version of yourself from last year or last month and see how she's feeling, see how he's feeling, maybe do a little celebrate.

00;56;57;28 - 00;57;25;07
Annette Dalloo
And if you did something really well, if you handled the situation beautifully in exactly the energy that you wanted to handle it in, celebrate that. Give yourself a pat on the back. We don't do that often enough. We don't celebrate those wins that we have energetically very often. So make sure that you're doing that as well. Connecting to previous versions of yourself isn't just about healing, it can be about celebrating as well.

00;57;25;11 - 00;57;46;27
Annette Dalloo
So if you haven't done that work before and you need some guidance, I can certainly help you with that. But it is relatively simple to do. Just follow what we did in the session where you close your eyes, go into a little meditation and connect with that version of yourself from last month or last week or last year, and have a little conversation and see what unfolds for you next.

00;57;46;27 - 00;58;13;25
Annette Dalloo
I'm going to address the idea of putting off your lessons. So what if you are dun dun dun and you just are sick and tired of working on this particular lesson? Can you put it off? Yeah, you certainly can. You can put it off. You can change direction. You can work on a different lesson. We do this all the time, and I see it in the records where people are pretty much done with a particular lesson, and they decide to work on something else for the remainder of that lifetime.

00;58;13;29 - 00;58;40;11
Annette Dalloo
And there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we do just get too tired to exhausted, too emotionally drained by trying to move through a particular lesson. And we just need a break. And that is okay. The reward, though, of pushing through is being able to see the change not only in yourself, but also in your relationships, so you can put off those lessons.

00;58;40;18 - 00;59;03;09
Annette Dalloo
But if you are having challenging connections with family members, those connections will probably continue to be challenging until you address whatever it is you need to address, you can take a pause. If you're tired, you can take a moment and take a step back from a family member if it's too draining for you, but you're always going to have to go back to that lesson.

00;59;03;09 - 00;59;22;13
Annette Dalloo
If it's something that is repeating in your life, how will you know that this is a lesson that you're trying to learn, is that it is something that has repeated. If this is just a one off, you're experiencing an unpleasant or challenging situation with a family member and it comes and goes, chances are that is not a lesson you are learning.

00;59;22;13 - 00;59;41;14
Annette Dalloo
Chances are that is just simply an interaction that either happened. Or maybe you are playing a role for another one of your family members or friends that need to have that experience so you can put off the lessons, certainly, but the reward and the expansion will also be sort of pushed into the future. Are you willing to do that?

00;59;41;14 - 01;00;04;02
Annette Dalloo
Do you want to move into your expansion? Do you want to have that beautiful, better life that you were looking for? If you do, then I suggest that you proactively look at those challenges that you do this work and not to the point of exhaustion, but you continue to do the work. It is a constant in your life that you are always working on.

01;00;04;02 - 01;00;29;22
Annette Dalloo
That particular lesson until you feel you have mastered it. So that brings us to how your gifts, your spiritual gifts come together over time with Marissa. In this session, we talk a little bit more about her sole purpose and life purpose and her soul origin. And there are times in sessions where I won't get all of the information for my clients, and it's simply because it has to do with timing.

01;00;29;22 - 01;00;55;17
Annette Dalloo
Sometimes they are not meant to know certain things at certain times, and the reason for that is because if you were to know all of your gifts at once, it could be overwhelming for you. It could be overwhelming in how you approach cultivating each one of those gifts. There's a reason why we typically start with 1 or 2 modalities, or 1 or 2 things that we're really interested in as we're first starting out.

01;00;55;17 - 01;01;18;05
Annette Dalloo
So for me, it was working with a pendulum and it was tarot cards or oracle decks. Those were the first things that I picked up because it sort of opened that gateway for me to be able to start tapping into my intuition. Do I still use those tools to this day? Occasionally, but I don't use them super often as your gifts evolve, so do the tools that you use or use.

01;01;18;05 - 01;01;48;29
Annette Dalloo
Sometimes you might not use any tools at all. Like I don't use any tools in my sessions. It just depends on what it is you're going to end up doing in this lifetime as it pertains to your gifts. So once I started tapping in to my channel, once I started reading the records, that's when I was able to let go of the tarot cards, the oracle decks, the pendulums, all of those things because I was able to level up my gifts in a way that I didn't need the tools anymore.

01;01;49;01 - 01;02;22;12
Annette Dalloo
Do I still use tools occasionally? Absolutely. I still use book divination or biblio schmancy. I still use oracle decks on occasion. I still use muscle testing. I use all kinds of things for my own use, for my own messages. When it comes to what you are going to be doing for your life or sole purpose, if it has anything to do with the spiritual realm, it is very likely that your gifts are going to come in one at a time, like little building blocks.

01;02;22;18 - 01;02;45;29
Annette Dalloo
Don't get hung up on the very first thing that you're drawn to, because most likely it's going to evolve and change. Similar to when I was talking to Marissa and she started saying that the death doula path that we had outlined the year prior felt a little too heavy for her at this time. And that's totally fine. So she's working on other things like breathwork, facilitating and things like that.

01;02;45;29 - 01;03;25;00
Annette Dalloo
She's following her guidance. She's following what feels good for her. Does that mean that she is not going to be working in the death doula practice? Not necessarily. But it could look completely different than what we originally imagined it to be because as she gains more and more gifts, as she learns more and more and modalities, that is going to shift and change what shows up for her in terms of opportunity, in terms of energy, and in terms of what really lights her up inside and makes her feel like this is something that she really wants to do.

01;03;25;03 - 01;03;50;25
Annette Dalloo
My biggest piece of advice if you were just starting to come into your spiritual gifts, be patient. It takes time. It really does take time. Unless you're somebody who was born with all of your gifts, which I have known many people who have that experience. But even in that case, their gifts grow and evolve and change. So be patient.

01;03;51;00 - 01;04;16;26
Annette Dalloo
Understand that the keys to unlocking your gifts will be handed to you when it's the right time, when it's the right energy, and when you are ready to cultivate those gifts with respect and grace. So the last topic I want to speak about today is worry energy. Is it worth it? Does it do anything to help? Guess what?

01;04;16;26 - 01;04;45;19
Annette Dalloo
It does not worry. Energy actually makes things more difficult for the person that you are worrying about. Now, I know a lot about this because my mom is a very big worrier, and I'm sure many of you mothers out there are very big worriers. I think it just sort of comes along with the territory. You worry about your children, you worry about their safety, you worry about the decisions they're making and where they're going in their life.

01;04;45;19 - 01;05;12;18
Annette Dalloo
And in this case, Marissa was worried about her daughter and the path that she was on. The first thing I want to say about this is you never know what this person has signed up for in this lifetime. The thing you might be worried about could be the very thing that they need to experience in order to expand, in order to move forward and grow.

01;05;12;22 - 01;05;40;09
Annette Dalloo
So your worry is essentially a wasted emotion in terms of just worrying that something is going to happen when it is meant to happen. Then there are the things that you worry about, just general safety or the things you worry about. You don't want your child or spouse or somebody else to experience something unpleasant. Well guess what? We all experience unpleasant things in this life, so what can you do instead?

01;05;40;09 - 01;06;02;11
Annette Dalloo
Instead of placing that worry energy in the field of the person that you love and making that experience for them just a little bit harder because you are placing that lower energy in their energy field. You can be a rock for them. You can be there to support it. If anything does happen, you can be their strength, their support.

01;06;02;15 - 01;06;26;23
Annette Dalloo
You can be there to listen, to talk to them, to give them tools to help them in any way possible. But guess what? So many of the worries that we have as humans don't even come true. So imagine all the time you could completely save by not worrying about things. I mean, myself included. I worry about all kinds of things I worry about.

01;06;26;23 - 01;06;49;08
Annette Dalloo
Oh, when am I going to move? Where am I going to move? I'm worrying about this. I'm worrying about that. I do that all the time. We all do. The only purpose it serves is telling that fear within us. Oh, hey, be careful. This thing might happen, so we have to protect ourselves. Okay? Sure. So that is a basic instinct that we have as humans to protect ourselves.

01;06;49;10 - 01;07;14;00
Annette Dalloo
And you might say, well, yeah, that serves a purpose. It does to an extent. It does when you are in harm's way. If you are in a position where, yes, something potentially harmful could happen, that is that instinct that is kicking in, but worrying about it beforehand, what is that doing? It is actually attracting that energy to you.

01;07;14;02 - 01;07;44;03
Annette Dalloo
So here's the mind boggling thing that always just gets me the paradoxical nature of the universe, which is if you are fearful of something, or if you're worrying about something, guess what that does? It actually brings that fear or worry closer to you, because you are manifesting that same energy by having that energy active in your field. So in order for the fear to go away, you need to be able to not feel the fear.

01;07;44;03 - 01;08;02;17
Annette Dalloo
Well, how do you not feel the fear? You have to dive right into it. So you have to dive right into the worry. Dive right into the fear and say, okay, what would happen if? Would I be okay? Would I be able to handle it? Do I have the tools to work through this? These are all questions that you can ask yourself.

01;08;02;19 - 01;08;22;26
Annette Dalloo
I always love the question, what would you do if you didn't have fear? And it's a wonderful question to ask, because there's so much of that energy that we just waste sitting there, being fearful, sitting there worrying, what would you do instead? What could you do instead? If you didn't have that fear, would you live a more vibrant life?

01;08;23;00 - 01;08;48;07
Annette Dalloo
Would you enjoy more of your life every day, every second of the day? What would you do? I would recommend that you take a look at the worries that you have and identify where they're coming from. Why are you worried about it? Are you worried because it's something that you feel? You see that person is moving towards some tragic diary that is in your eyes, bad for them.

01;08;48;07 - 01;09;12;04
Annette Dalloo
Next time, ask your intuition. Is this something that is worrisome? Is this something that I could help with? Those are better questions to ask. Is it something that I could help this person through? Is it something that I could give tools for or do I need to disengage and step back and just let them live their life? Now?

01;09;12;04 - 01;09;36;03
Annette Dalloo
This is an ongoing process. It's something that we all work on on a regular basis to move through those fears, move through those worries. Pay attention next time you are around somebody who you worry about, how often you are in that worry energy, how often you have worrisome thoughts, and what you can do to start reversing that energy.

01;09;36;04 - 01;10;09;25
Annette Dalloo
Thank you so much for joining me again this week. I look forward to connecting with you for another episode next Wednesday. If you're enjoying this podcast, it would be really amazing if you could like, share and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts, whether it's Apple or Spotify. Feel free to give it a review if you feel cold. If you are following me on YouTube, make sure you subscribe and hit the bell so you are notified for every single new episode of the Akashic Recordings.

01;10;09;25 - 01;10;23;01
Annette Dalloo
If you feel called to book a session with me, you can always reach me at Infinite Soul love.com and you can book directly on my website. Thank you so much for all of your support and I can't wait to connect with you next week.