AR14: Timeline/Inner Child work to Overcome Fear of Failure and Lack Mindset

In part two of our couple's session with Zoe and Phoebe, we dive into some deep fears of failure. I work with both of them using timeline/inner child work using NLP techniques. The discussion ends with the topic of why traditional psychology alone doesn't address the energetic aspects of the trauma or fear that is housed in our bodies. 

Transcript

00;00;00;00 - 00;00;32;28
Annette Dalloo
Whatever the situation is psychology that is not rooted in any type of spiritual practice. Spiritual clearing. Energetic clearing. If it doesn't have that component to it, it is very much rooted in the mind. And it's about your logical brain, which essentially bypasses a really big component of what needs to be done to fully heal.

00;00;33;00 - 00;01;07;08
Annette Dalloo
Welcome to the Akashic Recordings. I'm Annette Dalloo Akashic Conduit channel and spiritual guidance coach. I want to thank you for joining me today. The Akashic Recordings is created through the cooperation of my clients who have agreed to have their sessions recorded. Of course, with their permission, I am able to share these beautiful sessions with you. If you are interested in booking a session with me, you can go to my website at Infinite Soul love.com.

00;01;07;11 - 00;01;34;23
Annette Dalloo
Before we dive into this week's episode, I have a very quick announcement. So I have mentioned this to some of you out there who are on my mailing list. I will be launching Soul Discovery Workshop online in the next few months, and what I would like to do is have all of you who are interested to send me an email, and I will put you on the list to be first in line for one of these spots.

00;01;34;24 - 00;01;54;11
Annette Dalloo
So what this is going to entail is you are going to have modules that you will be able to listen to meditations, clearing work, all kinds of things that you will have in your portal, but you will also have group calls with me so we can actually work with each other. We can practice your intuition and the evolution of the soul.

00;01;54;11 - 00;02;22;18
Annette Dalloo
Discovery workshop is basically allowing and teaching all of you to access your own Akashic Records. So if you are interested, please send me an email Annette at Infinite Soul love.com and I will put you on the waiting list. And when that registration is open, you will get the first spots that are open before I open it up to the public.

00;02;22;21 - 00;02;50;02
Annette Dalloo
For today's episode, we decided to focus on a particular section taken from Zoe and Phoebe's session, the bulk of which we heard last week. In this section, Zoe tells in it about some fears she has that are stopping her from taking action in her life. So Annette leads her through a timeline exercise.

00;02;50;04 - 00;03;16;17
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. So the last time we talked, it was a lot about, like, my job and my career and, like, where I'm going. And I've just been getting bombarded with just the signs and synchronicities and these feelings of encouragement. And I guess I'm just still kind of battling this inner part of myself. I just got done working for two months straight with only two days off, and it's just fog.

00;03;16;18 - 00;03;34;12
Annette Dalloo
It's calming and thinking about going back and doing it more is just so suffocating. Like, it literally feels like the worst thing that I could do for myself. But I don't really know what to do with any of the stuff that's like being presented in front of me right now. What are some of the signs that you're getting?

00;03;34;14 - 00;03;54;16
Annette Dalloo
I'm getting a lot of numbers. Okay. A lot of numbers. I'm also getting my spirit animal is coming up all the time, all the conversations. And like, when I'm moving into a certain direction, it's like exclamation marks everywhere I'm going. But also at the same time, I just don't feel good about my life. Right? Right, right. Yeah.

00;03;54;16 - 00;04;13;11
Annette Dalloo
Okay, so we'll take a look at what the timing issue is in terms of when things are going to sort of start moving or start changing. And forgive me because I may have mentioned this to you. I usually don't remember the readings because I'm most of the time I'm in a channel. So like the information kind of falls out of my brain the second the session is done.

00;04;13;13 - 00;04;31;27
Annette Dalloo
So was there any sort of action steps that I gave you the last time we were talking about? And first of all, I'm not offended by you forgetting that at all. But we were talking about the job that I have working on ago and how I don't like it, and how I really want to pursue like a career with art.

00;04;32;01 - 00;04;53;10
Annette Dalloo
And I want maybe not moved. Adorable work down there for a little bit. But now I'm also thinking about my as being like a secondary. And yeah, I guess the thing that's always like stopping me for not is just like my financial stability. And honestly, going back to the fear of being homeless. Right, right, right. Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

00;04;53;15 - 00;05;14;06
Annette Dalloo
Okay. So okay, now I do recall, have you started looking into any of the things that we talked about in terms of your time off and then going to because I seem to recall now that we talked about you asking your boss about doing less hours. I can't remember what it was exactly, but I know we talked about that.

00;05;14;06 - 00;05;38;08
Annette Dalloo
Right. Yeah. So I told him that I needed a new contract and it needed to, like, have a rotational client so that I was off half the year. And he said that he would get that, but know it's company. I'm working for time. I did the carrot on the string a lot and they just said that like it's it's not finalized by like July and I'm going to wait in the winter.

00;05;38;10 - 00;06;18;13
Annette Dalloo
And I was feel like they're more willing to give me more. So I'm getting that they're not willing to lose you, but they're also not super motivated either. I keep on hearing them say yeah yeah yeah we'll deal with that later. Like that's it's not a pressing issue. Okay. So what is the draw to Asheville? Well, my boyfriend has always talked about wanting to live there, but looking into it more, there's just like a lot of resources that I could use based on, like, all the physical classes, I have aerial socks and yoga and just like a big spiritual and art community that I feel like I could connect with other people and glow

00;06;18;15 - 00;06;38;25
Annette Dalloo
in that, that aspect of my life and like, make that more of my center. Is he there already? No, no, I'm still okay. So then this would be a move that you would make together. Right. Okay. Got it. That feels like something that you could do as like a soft landing. I'm hearing it would be really, really easy for the both of you to get a job there.

00;06;38;26 - 00;07;03;07
Annette Dalloo
Really? I'm not sure why, but something about your skills as well as his skills. There's something about your skills set that maybe there's not a lot of there. Start doing some searching to see what is a possibility. And I'm not seeing that. Maybe you would need to get a full time job. Maybe you would just work part time, and then you would be able to pursue some of these other spiritual classes and things like that.

00;07;03;13 - 00;07;25;25
Annette Dalloo
I mean, it is a possibility for you to do, and it is a choice. So if you want to leave after this season and go and move to Asheville and pursue something there that it's you'll certainly be supported in doing so. Okay. It just doesn't feel like it's like a hell yes. Like when we were talking before and I said about talking about moving to Ecuador, you were saying that they were like screaming.

00;07;25;25 - 00;07;58;11
Annette Dalloo
Yes. Yeah, exactly. So I don't really want to make a choice that's just like, lukewarm if I'm going to be doing something huge. Yeah. That's why I was saying that it feels like a soft landing, because what we were talking about before is more of like, okay, you're going to be hanging out in this job until you feel comfortable enough to go to Ecuador, whereas the soft landing option would be like, okay, so you don't have to worry so much about being in this environment that you're in now.

00;07;58;15 - 00;08;17;18
Annette Dalloo
So you'd be able to get yourself out of the environment and then go to the soft landing before you're able to go to Ecuador. You know what I'm saying? It would be like a two step plan as opposed to a one step plan. Okay. So that's why you're feeling like it's it's not a hell yes. Because even if you did move to Asheville, it wouldn't be like a permanent thing.

00;08;17;19 - 00;08;35;01
Annette Dalloo
It would be definitely temporary. Oh, interesting. I was thinking it would be the other way around. Whereas I like where I end up staying, but. Well, it might, it might in the long run, but I mean, the you still have too much that you need to do. Like you still have too many places that you want to go and that you want to explore.

00;08;35;02 - 00;08;53;09
Annette Dalloo
And you might find yourself back there again, like in ten years or 15 years or something like that. But for the time being, if you were to go there now, you would feel it immediately. You would you would feel it that you were like, oh, wait, if I feel like if I, if I stay here like this, is it like I'm going to stay here forever and I'm not it's not time for me to do that yet.

00;08;53;11 - 00;09;14;28
Annette Dalloo
Okay. So one of the other synchronicities that I had was that probably about a year ago, I just like, sat down and started drawing what I believe to be my dream home. And then I was on Zillow cause my boyfriend sent me a house that was in Asheville. And so I'm looking at other houses and I saw a listing for the exact drawing that I had drawn.

00;09;15;03 - 00;09;39;19
Annette Dalloo
Beautiful. Yeah. But like it's also $1.2 million. Well, okay, so here's the thing is that this is the universe saying to you that what you what you have and what you've manifested is there. It's available. Okay. So now it's about getting all of the money alignment and have that place. Right. So yeah, not to say that you're never going to have it.

00;09;39;19 - 00;10;04;00
Annette Dalloo
It's not to say that you're going to have it this year, but knowing that that is something that is what you want. Now you're basically telling the universe, okay, cool. So this is what I want. This is exactly the house that I want or that or what I like to say is this or something better. And and then from that perspective, it's time for the universe to start bringing me the money that I have coming into my life in order to get this house.

00;10;04;04 - 00;10;31;26
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, I feel like that's going to come when I decide to actually commit to my self and do the thing that's just like pulling at my heartstrings. But just like lot of fear and a lot of fear in between those two things. So where are the fears coming from? Do you know failure externally and also just feeling myself not being committed enough and just giving up on myself and then also money or money.

00;10;32;01 - 00;10;49;26
Annette Dalloo
So money is just energy. So the amount of money that comes into you on any given day is based on the energy that you are allowing it to come through. So imagine it like a like a spout of water. Is your spout all the way open, or is it all the way shut? Or it was. Is it a tiny bit open?

00;10;49;28 - 00;11;09;25
Annette Dalloo
Right? Connecting to the energy of money and just imagining a visual of that energy opening up to money and to receiving money? And if you can imagine, like a faucet of money turning all the way on. So money just completely flows into your life on a regular basis. That is a visualization that I want you to do as much as you can.

00;11;10;00 - 00;11;28;24
Annette Dalloo
And it doesn't have to be a faucet. It can be anything like you could come up with some visualization of your own that's similar to that, but the same kind of idea of opening your energy up to money, to the energy of money. Okay, okay. So we're going to take a look at the fear of failure. What I would like you to do and for for Phoebe, I would like you to do the same thing.

00;11;28;24 - 00;11;52;06
Annette Dalloo
Just so you're you're getting something from this as well. Maybe it's not fear of failure, but maybe think of another fear that you have, okay, that you want to work on. And I would like you to imagine that you have a time line stretched out behind you. And this timeline goes from this present moment all the way back into your inception in your mother's womb, and with your intuition.

00;11;52;06 - 00;12;12;06
Annette Dalloo
I want you to go all the way back, back, back, back, back to the very, very first time. You can recognize that you felt this fear. And we're not talking about remembering. We're not talking about a memory. We're talking about connecting to that intuition. And let your intuition telling you the age that you were when you first felt that fear.

00;12;12;09 - 00;12;33;02
Annette Dalloo
And let me know when you both have, have, have that age. I have it, I have it as well. Okay. So I'd like you to invite that version of yourself to stand in front of you right now. Or if it's an infant or even younger than that, just imagine that you're holding that child, and I want you to ask that version of yourself, where did this fear come from?

00;12;33;02 - 00;13;07;27
Annette Dalloo
What was the origin point of this fear? And Zoe, are you able to connect with that? Yeah. Can you tell me what was happening? It's my mom, I think. Just blaming me for everything that went wrong. Blaming me for all the hardships in her life. Okay. And Phoebe, were you able to get the origin. So I was maybe 9 or 10 and she is afraid to leave all of her friends behind and, and being afraid of not being good enough to meet new friends I guess and all of that being life change that goes along with it.

00;13;07;29 - 00;13;32;04
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, absolutely. I'm going to ask for you to ask of that version of yourself, what it is that she needs in this moment, in order for that fear to dissipate. And, Zoe, are you able to get that? Yeah. Did you want me to say. Yeah, what I got was I needed to feel like I'm supported and to feel like I can do so.

00;13;32;04 - 00;13;57;09
Annette Dalloo
Given and just to find love and kind more. So I want you to also ask if there's anything that she needs to be forgiven for. No. Yeah. Home. Yeah. Just an overwhelming cloak of just shame and guilt that she's just carried with her whole life. And she hasn't needed to because none of it is hers. It's all her moms.

00;13;57;09 - 00;14;18;08
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, yeah. So what we're going to do is we're going to put you in a bubble of divine light protection with this two year old version of yourself. And inside this bubble, we're going to clear and transmute any energy that does not belong to you. We're going to allow your mother's energy to be her energy. We're going to cut any and all energetic cords between you and your mother.

00;14;18;09 - 00;14;39;06
Annette Dalloo
We're going to imagine that any words that your mom says just instantly turn into gibberish. Like, think of it like she's like the adults that speak in the Snoopy cartoons. Anything she says, like, it just doesn't. It doesn't sound like anything. It's just gibberish, okay? And just understand and look at her as if all of that energy, all of that psychic debris, that's all.

00;14;39;06 - 00;14;55;11
Annette Dalloo
Hers has nothing to do with you. And because she had all this psychic debris, it made it incredibly difficult for her to love you the way that you needed to be loved, because she had all of these things going around in her energy field and it's really hard for us to give something we want to give to somebody else.

00;14;55;15 - 00;15;14;11
Annette Dalloo
If our energy field is all mucked up with all kinds of guilt and shame and pain, because when we give somebody our energy, we can't just pick and choose what energy we're going to give them. Energy doesn't lie. We're just literally handing them whatever energy we're in right? And when you're a parent, you don't really have a choice.

00;15;14;11 - 00;15;37;21
Annette Dalloo
You just you give your child whatever energy you're in. And that's not her fault necessarily. It's just the state of things. It's just how things were. So I'd like you to imagine that you and this two year old version of yourself is safe in that beautiful bubble, safe from any of that psychic debris that was your mother's removing all the energetic cords that do not belong to you, and allowing yourself to feel safe and empowered in your own energy.

00;15;37;26 - 00;15;54;15
Annette Dalloo
And then I would like you to pick up that two year old version of yourself. If you if you aren't holding her already, and I would like you to give her that love, that acceptance, that nurturing, that unconditional love that she is desiring, and then check in with her and ask her how she's feeling now. She's feeling good.

00;15;54;22 - 00;16;13;05
Annette Dalloo
Good. That's awesome. So any time you feel that that feeling of failure or the fear of failure, I want you to connect in with her. And I want you to connect in with that feeling and ask if it's really yours. Is it really true? Is any of it true? And of course, we've all had failures in our lives.

00;16;13;05 - 00;16;33;04
Annette Dalloo
We all have. But is it something that we need to hold on to as a cautionary tale, so to speak? We learn from our failures. It's a learning point, but we don't have to repeat them. And even if we do fail at something, sometimes that can just be the universe's way. Of course, correcting or maybe you're growing out of something in particular that you need to change.

00;16;33;11 - 00;16;58;24
Annette Dalloo
Failure does not define you. It can simply be a transition from one energy to the next. I can use the example of my business. I was a designer for 24 years, and I had my own business for half of that time, and once I started understanding that I would be doing this work and that I'd be reading the Akashic records, the universe started preparing me for it.

00;16;59;00 - 00;17;16;04
Annette Dalloo
And it took a lot of preparation. It took me like five years to prepare, and it was a lot of shadow work. It was a lot of crying. It was a lot of rough energies, let's put it that way. And in that process, slowly but surely, my design business was tanking. And I knew, because I knew that I was moving into this new energy.

00;17;16;04 - 00;17;30;14
Annette Dalloo
I knew that it was happening for a reason. And no matter what I did, I couldn't seem to get more clients in the clients that I did have. One company closed their doors. Another one decided to hire in-house designers so they weren't using freelance anymore. Like all of these things started happening. Could I have looked at that as a failure?

00;17;30;14 - 00;17;49;26
Annette Dalloo
I certainly could have. But it wasn't a failure because it was simply a transition from one to the next. And it's a matter of like how graceful that transition is, is how much we're paying attention to the messages that we're getting from our guides and how much we are resisting that change. So I would like you to put your hand on your heart right now.

00;17;49;26 - 00;18;10;10
Annette Dalloo
And how does that feel within yourself now? It feels a lot better, but I still feel that like past dark, you know, stuff. And yeah, it takes time. You're never going to be able to just take a fear and just be like, okay, eradicated, done. You know, like, I mean, because, you know, we cultivate our fears for our entire lifetimes, right?

00;18;10;10 - 00;18;37;07
Annette Dalloo
We got to the origin point of that fear, which is that two year old version of yourself. But you have since that moment reiterated that fear to yourself for all the rest of the years of your life. Definitely feels more manageable. Yeah. So that's the whole thing, is that as long as you can make it a little bit more manageable every single day and start reframing risk scripting, changing the way you think about it, little step by step, it'll start to unfold differently for you.

00;18;37;09 - 00;19;03;11
Annette Dalloo
Okay. Thank you. Yeah. Phoebe, we're going to go to yours. You are connecting to that version of yourself. I want you to tell me a little bit about what she was saying to you, about what she needs. Okay? She was saying that she needs me to love her. And that we can do whatever from there and that it's okay to be new or an outcast as we love ourselves.

00;19;03;13 - 00;19;29;04
Annette Dalloo
Take care of ourselves. Do you think you can give that to her? Yeah, I think I can you ask her how she wants to be loved? Gently. Do not be so critical and hard on her, and just accept her for who she is and I'm hearing love my flaws. Yeah. And understanding that if you are able to love that shadow side of yourself, which that's what I consider to be the shadow is like the things that we don't like about ourselves, or the things that we try to hide from other people.

00;19;29;07 - 00;19;48;06
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, understanding that if you are able to love that part of yourself, then other people will be able to love and accept that part of you as well. Have you shared with Zoe some of your deepest secrets, the places in which you feel like you want to hide, the places that you feel like you don't want to show people?

00;19;48;09 - 00;20;14;02
Annette Dalloo
Have you showed those places to each other? Yeah, it's harder to go there, but I think, you know, we've done it. It's not a place I like to go super often with anybody other than myself. Most of the time that Zoe is lets me share it with her, which is very nice. So the only reason why I ask that question is because I want to just point out that in sharing that information, it did not make her love you any less right?

00;20;14;08 - 00;20;36;12
Annette Dalloo
And she's able to accept you unconditionally no matter what you share with her. And I'm seeing that that's something that you have reciprocal for each other. Is that really, no matter what you share, you're both very understanding of each other and what you're going through. Yeah. It's really beautiful. So remember that because I find that it is sometimes easier to share our shadow with friends.

00;20;36;18 - 00;21;00;19
Annette Dalloo
It's like friends are the easiest because you know that we're choosing to be with each other right. Yeah. Family is a little harder because we're stuck with family. So if you share something with them that they don't like then you're going to have to deal with it, right? Yeah. And then with significant others, it's even harder because we love them and we're afraid that they're going to look at us differently or want to leave if they know certain things about us.

00;21;00;19 - 00;21;30;16
Annette Dalloo
Right? Yeah, absolutely. The one thing that is super important to know and understand is that if you are able to share that that part of yourself that's imperfect to your partners, it shows and sets the example to allow them to be able to do the same. It's not to say that you have to do this all day, every day, but when you're feeling guided, if you're going through something, if you feel like you're triggered in some way to be able to be vulnerable and share that with them and say, hey, look like I'm I'm working through this thing right now.

00;21;30;16 - 00;21;58;20
Annette Dalloo
This is what I'm dealing with. Yeah. And it'll help them to understand you in a, in a much better light. Okay. So that's something to to practice okay. And that's part of loving you. That's part of loving yourself and loving that version of you. Yeah. Absolutely.

00;21;58;23 - 00;22;22;27
Annette Dalloo
And once again, we'd like to thank Zoe and Phoebe for their participation in this podcast. So timeline work is that the same as in the child work? And it the reason why I use the phrase timeline work as opposed to inner child work, is simply because it removes the idea of what it is, because inner child work is a very, very common phrase.

00;22;23;00 - 00;22;47;15
Annette Dalloo
And people know a lot about inner child in general from psychology and things like that. And I don't really want anybody to have sort of a preconceived notion of what that means, because for me, inner child work simply means the subconscious version of yourself that is either being neglected or not getting the things it needs, or it didn't get the things it needed.

00;22;47;18 - 00;23;15;28
Annette Dalloo
In the past. So it doesn't have to be when you were a child. Oftentimes it is, but it doesn't have to be that long ago. It could be something that happened to you a year ago or a couple of years ago. So the timeline term is just allowing that this work be done literally anywhere on your timeline for this current lifetime.

00;23;16;00 - 00;23;44;17
Annette Dalloo
We are addressing the feelings and emotions, as well as the energetic imprint that is still within the body and the energetic field that is from this current lifetime. There is a fair bit of talk of it in kind of in spiritual circles and self-development circles or timeline work is a more unusual term for it. So I just wanted to be sure that people were clear on what it actually is.

00;23;44;20 - 00;24;11;28
Annette Dalloo
So then with that in mind, whichever way we refer to it, is it the only way to do this type of work or other other techniques? Other other approaches, other exercises to do it? Yeah. So there are so many ways that you can do this. This is just one technique. And the technique that I use is based on NLP, which is neuro linguistic programing.

00;24;12;00 - 00;24;39;09
Annette Dalloo
It's something that is a combination of that and what my guides are guiding me to do. Sometimes when I do this work with clients, I don't really even know where it's going, but the guides sort of tell me where I need to go, what I need to do, what needs to be cleared if it's energy work, if it's inner fears or inner shadow that needs to be integrated.

00;24;39;09 - 00;25;09;28
Annette Dalloo
So the guides pretty much tell me everything I need to know. And that's how I know which tools to use. That's how we get to the root of whatever is going on. And so that way the client can start to heal. Sometimes that does mean going through timeline work such as this, and sometimes it means that the client needs to really get in touch with their own intuition and be able to connect to that previous version of themselves.

00;25;10;01 - 00;25;40;07
Annette Dalloo
If there's somebody who is super, super blocked for whatever reason and just absolutely cannot connect in with their intuition, then this work can be done in other ways. The experience that the person had in this previous versions of themselves can be seen through my visions, through my psychic nature. The difference is, is that they are not able to feel or experience those emotions themselves.

00;25;40;09 - 00;26;00;22
Annette Dalloo
So it is effective, but it's going to be slightly less effective if they're not able to connect to that themselves. But ultimately, it's all about the energy. So let's say the client is dealing with something that is from the womb or when they were, let's say, 0 or 1 year old, I can connect to that and so can they, because it's about the energy.

00;26;00;22 - 00;26;39;05
Annette Dalloo
It's not about the memory, and it's not about the age that you are necessarily. It is about the origin point of where that trauma or that shadow or that belief system was formed. And that's the other thing that we are looking for is I want to reiterate, we are looking for the intuition. We're not looking for the actual physical memories, because memories are often incorrect and the incorrect memories or the experience of what the client had and what they interpreted it as in that previous version of themselves, are often what creates some of the trauma to begin with.

00;26;39;06 - 00;26;57;04
Annette Dalloo
So there have been times when I've gone in with clients and they thought that, let's say, a parent felt a certain way about them. But when you do the timeline and realize that, in fact, their energy didn't say that at all, and that their energy had said that they really do love their child, but let's say they had their own traumas going on.

00;26;57;04 - 00;27;26;06
Annette Dalloo
So to answer your question, there are many ways you can do this work, whether it's through intuition, whether it's me checking in for the client, whether it is other modalities such as EFT tapping, somatic exercise, somatic breathing, breathwork. There are so many different ways that you can start to release these things that you need to release. This is just one of those ways, and this was the way in which I was guided.

00;27;26;10 - 00;27;50;23
Annette Dalloo
So there are times when you don't even have to tap into your intuition to understand the energy that was happening in that previous version of yourself. Things like breathwork sort of circumvent that. If any of you out there have done breathwork, you know that the breathwork itself is what is getting that energy out of your body. So there are plenty of effective ways to do this work.

00;27;50;25 - 00;28;18;12
Annette Dalloo
It is about your subconscious and the part of you that is feeling neglected, hurt, shamed, guilt, all of those sort of lower energies for visualization, say, sometimes it's easier for us to envision a child. It's easier for us to envision that version of ourselves from that particular age. But is it really about the child? Well, no. When you're 1 or 0 years old as a human, you're not necessarily physically conscious of what is happening and what is going on.

00;28;18;14 - 00;28;41;03
Annette Dalloo
Your soul is the one that's conscious of it, and your energy is what's conscious of it. Your consciousness is attached to whatever is going on around you energetically. I can't say that this is the only way that you can do inner child work. There are hundreds and hundreds of techniques and different ways to do it. This is just the way that I am guided to do it, just like anyone else who needs to work through something.

00;28;41;07 - 00;29;05;24
Annette Dalloo
And let's say they're not in the place where they would reach out to somebody like me. Maybe they are not on a spiritual path. Maybe they're not necessarily believing in past lives or something like that. Of course, they can certainly do inner child work because it is, well, well documented in psychology. And so most people who aren't in the spiritual realm would probably go to a therapist or psychologist to do this work.

00;29;05;27 - 00;29;23;03
Annette Dalloo
And of course, there are amazing, beautiful tools that you can use in that realm. The difference between using those tools and doing those things is that what I found after going through as much therapy as I have in my lifetime, which has been over a decade, it doesn't address the energy of what is happening or what has happened.

00;29;23;04 - 00;29;50;04
Annette Dalloo
It addresses your feelings about it and you can talk about it. Oh well, I felt this way when mom did this. Or I need to forgive mom for doing this because she didn't know better or whatever. Whatever the situation is, psychology that is not rooted in any type of spiritual practice spiritual clearing, energetic clearing. If it doesn't have that component to it, it is very much rooted in the mind.

00;29;50;04 - 00;30;14;09
Annette Dalloo
And it's about your logical brain, which essentially by pass is a really big component of what needs to be done to fully heal. I've done years and years and years of therapy that got me baby steps to where I needed to go, and until I started doing the spiritual work, I hadn't gotten very far. But the spiritual work is what made me grow leaps and bounds.

00;30;14;11 - 00;30;38;09
Annette Dalloo
And it's funny you say that because I'm. I'm rereading The Power of Now. Oh, nice. It was my first my first spiritual text that I had read many years ago, and I just, I recently, received a sign that I needed to come back to to that concept of really being present in the now. And the book just happened to be within my reach.

00;30;38;09 - 00;31;01;26
Annette Dalloo
So I picked it up the other day and I started rereading it and I just read a paragraph where it talks about the fact that I can't remember specific exercises he's referring to, but he's saying that, well trained psychologists could lead you through the same exercise as long as they themselves have gone beyond the mind, I love that, yeah, as long as you don't stay cerebral.

00;31;01;26 - 00;31;41;24
Annette Dalloo
Right. And the really beautiful thing about that is that it's so eloquently put. And that is why he has sold millions and millions of books. So, yeah. Yeah, he knows what he's talking about. That guy. Let's get into the real important question of this whole topic, which is how does time line work or inner child work work? You could forgive a person for thinking that it seems like a bit of a nice little exercise, but something that is potentially missing any real power, any real ability to change something.

00;31;41;27 - 00;32;07;14
Annette Dalloo
This requires yet a little bit of belief in how energy work functions. But if you can imagine that you have imprints of people or experiences in various places, if you have these imprints, they're echoes of the past. They are imprints of what has happened. And you can go in and clear that energy. You can clear energy from a house, from a crystal.

00;32;07;14 - 00;32;33;13
Annette Dalloo
You can clear energy from yourself. You can clear energy from pretty much anything, because energy simply exists in the way in which it exists depends on how it's being interacted upon, if you will. So if you're able to clear the energy of something from the past, let's say you have your grandmother's ring and you want to clear the energy of that ring, you can clear the energy of that ring by just simply setting the intention to clear the energy or to reset the energy.

00;32;33;17 - 00;32;56;26
Annette Dalloo
And so if you can imagine, it's very similar to that, except for you're doing it with your own energy. So are we going back in time so to speak? Yes and no. It's almost as if you are carrying that energy with you. So let's say you're walking along your timeline. You start at zero, go to one year old, you go to two years old and there's some sort of trauma that happens or some sort of thing that happens that makes you really scared or you don't like it.

00;32;56;26 - 00;33;17;24
Annette Dalloo
It's like you pick up that energy from that particular moment in time and you carry it with you. So if you can imagine, it's almost like a piece of bubble gum that's being stretched. So you're picking up that piece of bubble gum on the bottom of your shoe that was stuck to the floor, and now you're carrying it with you from two to 3 to 4 to 5 to 6, all the way up to your current age.

00;33;17;24 - 00;33;38;26
Annette Dalloo
Right. And what we're doing is we're allowing you to let go of that piece of gum that's been stretched that entire way, stuck to your shoe, but still stuck to that previous moment. So you're letting go of that gum and it snaps back to the original timeline. Now that we've let go of it, the gum is still there, though it's still back in that original time.

00;33;38;26 - 00;33;54;26
Annette Dalloo
So what can we do? Well, we can go back and say, okay, I'm going to clean up that piece of gum. I'm going to go pick it up off the floor and I'm going to throw it out. And that allows the energy to be cleared from that particular moment in time. Now are we changing what happened? Meaning are we talking about the butterfly effect?

00;33;54;29 - 00;34;20;03
Annette Dalloo
We stepped on a butterfly and now we're changing the outcome of your entire life. No no no no, it's not it's not like that. You're not changing the outcome of your whole life. You're simply changing the energy of what happened in the past and your reaction to it so you can move forward in lighter, newer energy, energy that is more conscious, energy that is more aware.

00;34;20;05 - 00;34;39;25
Annette Dalloo
Because a lot of the time, these things that we experience as children, we don't know what they are and we are confused by them. We don't know how to process them. But then when we look back at them from a perspective of a now, let's say 50 year old woman that I am, I can look back and say, oh, yeah, I mean, I don't know why I was upset about that.

00;34;39;25 - 00;35;03;10
Annette Dalloo
I don't really think it was that big of a deal, or now I can see the bigger perspective where let's say, my mom or my dad were going through something and I could see why they would respond the way that they did. So now you have much more perspective, and you can go back and transmute and clear that, but you're not going to change the physical experiences of what happened as a child.

00;35;03;10 - 00;35;40;22
Annette Dalloo
You're simply removing that energy or transmuting it that didn't really belong there to begin with, because you're dealing with your perception of what you experienced versus the actual experience itself. And so, so many people, including myself, are carrying wounds that we don't need to carry. They're not serving us anymore. And actually, they probably only served us for those few moments that we had, those fears or those worries or those anxieties back when they happened, were defense mechanisms, or they were allowing us to feel safe to survive, but we're holding on to them.

00;35;40;22 - 00;36;09;26
Annette Dalloo
So this is allowing us to let go of what we've been holding on to for so long and start to move forward in the energy that is real and true and pure for ourselves. That's a really great analogy and explanation. But I think, as you said at the beginning, the prerequisite to be able to fully understand that is to firstly have an understanding of energy having a real consequence.

00;36;09;28 - 00;36;34;29
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, it does take a certain type of faith and belief in how this all works. In order for somebody to really benefit from this. Well, that was a slightly shorter discussion than we tend to have, but I think since we covered all the key points, let's allow it to be as it is so that it can sink in better for people.

00;36;35;01 - 00;36;52;14
Annette Dalloo
And of course, as per usual, if there are any questions, if you come up with anything that you're wanting to know, please don't hesitate to put it in the comments and social media. Send us an email, whatever you need to do, and I'd be happy to address it in another episode. Absolutely. We would love to hear your your thoughts, comments, and feedback.

00;36;52;17 - 00;37;14;02
Annette Dalloo
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00;37;14;04 - 00;37;41;00
Annette Dalloo
And that way you will be absolutely certain to get every single new episode, follow it on all the platforms and listen to it on all the platforms. Yeah, exactly. On that note, until next time, then. Until next time. If you're enjoying this podcast, I really would appreciate it if you would give it a like a thumbs up wherever you happen to be listening, make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss an episode.

00;37;41;03 - 00;38;11;24
Annette Dalloo
And if you need to get Ahold of me, you can certainly reach me on my website at Infinite Soul love.com. You can also reach me on all social media at Infinite Soul Love 1111. That's on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok and Facebook. You can find this podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts, Spotify, Apple Pocket Casts anything that you use to listen to podcasts.

00;38;11;24 - 00;38;17;21
Annette Dalloo
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